In 2016 I became stuffed up in one nostril. It didn’t go away. In fact, it kept getting worse. After about 6 months, and several discussions trying to convince my wife I did not in fact have allergies that only affected one nostril, we went to the doctor.
I did not have allergies. What I had was a pulip the size of a golf ball growing in my nasal cavity. Super not fun.
We scheduled surgery for a few months later. We had a honeymoon in Thailand coming up and didn’t want me to be recovering from surgery on our honeymoon. Plus it made getting my underwater diving certificate more interesting having a blockage that made it impossible for me to equalize.
I eventually had the pulip removed. From now on, once per day, I have to shoot salt water mixed with budesonine up my nose to make sure the pulip doesn’t grow back. It’s not particularly fun but it isn’t too bad once you’re used to it. It’s just a small annoyance like putting contacts in.
Being forced to consistently do this uncomfortable ritual has taught me a few lessons that translate into life in general and our journey to reach financial independence.
- Consistency is key- Consistency is the key to not having to go through that f**king surgery again. I can’t just shoot a bunch of water up my nose one day and then nothing else the rest of the week. The same goes with managing our money. It’s an everyday occurrence. We can’t just be really good about packing a lunch one day and then eating out every other day. If you want to reach your goals, whether they are physical, mental, or financial you need to be consistent. You can’t just go to the gym one day and work out for 7 hours and skip the rest of the month.
- An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure- Going through the post-surgery recovery was one of the worst experiences of my life. It felt like there was a hole in the middle of my head that I couldn’t reach. I felt like slamming my face into the counter just so I could feel the sensation of pain somewhere that I could touch. Irrigating my nasal passages everyday is annoying but not nearly as painful as having to go through that surgery and recovery again. The same is true with finances. It’s annoying to set up retirement accounts or transfer over your old 401k or consistently save part of your paycheck but not nearly as painful as ignoring it and finding out too late in the game that you aren’t prepared for retirement.
- Don’t wait to fix small problems- I knew something was up with my nasal cavity but I was busy at work and didn’t want to make an appointment. What was once a small polyp grew into a huge polyp. I suffered through months of waking up panicking in the night because I couldn’t breath. My mouth would be dry and I felt like I was drowning. Don’t wait to fix small problems with your finances. Maybe you have an advisor who is charging you a fee but it’s not that big of a fee and you don’t have that much money invested. Fix the problem now while it’s manageable. Don’t wait until you’ve wasted decades of investment returns being eaten up by fees or bad investments.
- The more you do something uncomfortable the easier it becomes- When I irrigate my nose every day it only takes a few minutes. It isn’t painful and I hardly mind the sensation of water shooting up and around my nasal passages. When I don’t do it for a few days it becomes much harder to start again. My passages get a little clogged and the sensation of water feels a little more foreign. Once you start doing something difficult like getting in shape or eating out less or picking up more hours it’s hard at first. The more you do it the more you get used to doing it and it becomes easier. Start now. Find a few easy ways you can improve your health or finances or happiness and start doing them consistently. If you fall off the horse don’t bemoan the fact that you messed up, just get back on the horse.
- Don’t waste time regretting your situation- I could spend my days wallowing in self pity that I have to irrigate my nose. It looks ridiculous and feels weird. Who irrigates their nose?! But I’m don’t wallow. I could be mad at myself for not going to the doctor sooner. Maybe this irrigation situation could have been avoided. I don’t beat myself up about what might have been. I look at the bright side. Doing this daily irrigation keeps me polyp free and gets me into a routine. In a small way it’s easier to find other things I can do everyday because I have this one thing that I HAVE to do everyday. Maybe you have a debt situation you have to deal with. Don’t constantly beat yourself up about it. It is what it is. Move on. Be proud of yourself for attacking the situation now rather than being disappointed with yourself for being in this spot.
Those are 5 lessons I’ve learned by shooting water up my nose. I hope my misfortune can be your gain.
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